Thursday, 27 December 2012

Ashamed ....

I have never wanted to write a post regarding atrocious acts committed against women..how much ever it is shown...broadcasted out...devil inside a person comes out at certain point of time...and this time it was done against a 23 year old paramedic student in Delhi...

She's named  ...and referred to as Damini...a name inspired from a movie's character...!!! She was returning with her friend when she boarded a bus with tinted windows...

He friend was beaten till blue and Damini was brutally gang raped by 4-5 people who were there in the bus...she was beaten with iron rods and dropped off onto the road to die!!!!

These men maybe were psychics...all they wanted was a pleasure of few moments which destroyed and shattered the life of a girl...a girl who had dreams....a girl who never did any harm to them...!!!

Delhi being the capital of my country...nah our country... there were about 200+ rape cases being filed this year...turning the city into the Rape capital....by certain psychopaths...!!! A single moment of genital pleasure shattering the dreams and lives of umpteen girls...their families....toppling their world upside down!!!!

We would wonder why didnt the girl try to escape or use some self defense mechanisms...but everyone should understand that no matter how much self def. tenchinques you master..presence of mind matters...!!!! She was just a girl...just like me....just like you...!!! She had 4-6 men grappling her... she cudnt scream.... she cudnt be seen due to the tinted glass....!!! she was raped...yeah raped!!!!

A country where we see the rockets developing....science advancing....infrastructures improving..yet there's still no safety for women...!!! she still fears to walk alone after dark....!!!! God created men and women and he treated both of them equally...yet we still live in a male dominated society...where the taboo still exists that woman cant go out at dark.... why is it???? why are we brought up in such a way???? why do we get attacked???? why do we become victims???

As a girl...as a woman...I do feel outraged by such activities...but I feel so helpless...where is the mistake being done..??? are the culprits doing this bcos they know they will be rescued by a criminal lawyer???

The idiot box showed youngsters agitated against such a henious act committed against Damini...youngsters like u and me......!!They had the guts to go out and scream... to do something for the girl who's still in critical condition...!!!! She's battling for her life..and the culprits are to and fro sent out for an enquiry.... in perfect form... with no injuries in or out!!!!!

I know its not a matter of hanging the rapists or undertaking some forms of severe punishments now... but they need to know the pain ...they need to know whats it to be expreiencing physical violence against you..agianst your body....!!!! they need to know the trauma what the girl faced ....!!! they need to know the pain of what their opposite side of sex experiences when a violence is being commited against oneself...without any consent....!!!

Typing this ...my eyes still waters...I still feel ashamed to be a part of the society which couldn't protect its female members from atrocities being commited against them....

I wish for Damini's speedy recovery....!!! Damini...Ur in my prayers...infact..many out there are praying for your recovery...ur friends...ur college mates..ur family...!!! I hope God be with you when you 're in Mt. Elizabeth Hospital, Singapore right now..undergoing major operations...!!!! U may be a complete stranger to me..to many out there...but in a country where we learn all Indians are my brothers and sisters... u definetely are a part of my family... our family....!!! God be with u....